Xander: I know it’s weird…
Willow: Weird? It’s against all laws of God and Man. It’s Cordelia. Remember? The, the ‘We Hate Cordelia’ club, of which you are the treasurer.
Xander: Look, I was gonna tell you.
Willow: Gee, what stopped you? Could it be shame?
Xander: All right, let’s overreact, shall we?
Willow: But I’m…
Xander: Willow, we were just kissing. It doesn’t mean that much.
Willow: No. It just means that you’d rather be with someone you hate than be with me.

BtVS - Innocence (s02e14)

Xander: What, and suck all the spontaneity out of being young and stupid? I’d rather live in the dark.

BtVS - What’s My Line, Part One (s02e09)